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I am annoyed by reports of a Utah School  doctoring yearbook photos to show less skin. My reasons: 1. The school district admittedly applied the rule unevenly. 2. The original pictures were fine, for the most part. 3. I dare say not one boy's photo was doctored. 4. Cleavage is one thing, but shoulders?  That is taking it too far. I realize my stance my be unpopular, but it often is, and I am ok with that. But I feel like we cross the line in asking our girls to be modest... and push the barriers into shaming girls for just being girls.  While I practiced modesty with my daughter from her pre-teen years through now, adulthood (18th birthday coming up), I don't believe in telling girls that some guy seeing a glimpse of an ankle or a (gasp) arm, is going to cause some guy to stumble in his faith. Meanwhile guys get to run around completely shirtless, and girls are expected to have no reaction?  I am sick of the double standard.  In encouraging (not dema...

When she spoke I listened As if she were speaking directly to me. She chose her words carefully And set and example for all to see. She told us why the caged bird sings She lost her voice through childhood trauma But found it again through poetry Then she rose above poverty with dance and drama She was as comfortable with a pen as she was on the stage Acting with James Earl Jones, Gossett, and Cicely Tyson Wrote for and worked with Malcolm X and King She lived and loved in Paris, Cairo, and Ghana And she was just getting started At the height of her career she produced movies She wrote scores and songs for Roberta Flack She won Tony Awards She won honorary degrees, and then she gave back. By the time I came on the scene at the age of 13 she had accomplished all of these things And I as a child looked at her life and her works And breathed a sigh of relief as her words gave me wings I saw so many similarities in my past and hers Downtrodden, beaten, marginalize...

Whenever something happens to kids, we, us homeschoolers want to find a way to say "this wouldn't happen to my kids, because they are home with us."  But those days eventually end.  My kids are in college now.  They are home for the summer, but in about 8 weeks, they will pack their belongings and go back to college campuses where there will be at the mercy of others with mental illnesses and an axe to grind. Yes, I am talking about Santa Barbara shooter Elliot Rodger , who shot numerous students and got himself killed last Friday night, all because he felt rejected by hot college girls.  I am pretty angry with the media for plastering his face on the TV screen.  We all knew where to find his YouTube ramblings and manifesto if we so desired, but nope, there it was, right on the TV screen... a rather attractive young college student who spoke in an eerie, measured tone.  He was someone who, if I was not aware of who he was and what he had done, I would fin...

It is Eliza Doolittle Day over at Carnival of homeschooling! Check it out:   http://whyhomeschool.blogspot.com/2014/05/carnival-of-homeschooling-eliza.html